Children - how does domestic abuse affect them?

Studies show that in 90% of cases, children are present in the home during incidents of domestic abuse.

CHILDREN ARE ALWAYS AT RISK

  •  they may be witnesses;
  •  they may become involved in the abuse when seeking to protect their mother;
  •  they may become victims – research shows a link between domestic abuse and the physical and sexual abuse of children;
  •  they may be threatened in order to control their mother's actions and prevent disclosure;
  •  even when none of the above apply, the effects on children living in situations of domestic abuse are profound - children don't have to 'see' it to be affected by it;
  •  all concerns about children should be recorded.

Possible effects may be:

  • feelings of anger, guilt, fear and isolation;
  •  anxiety, depression and withdrawal;
  •  asthma, bedwetting and eczema;
  •  not allowed to see family or friends;
  •  possessions and pets damaged;
  •  disruption to schooling;
  •  displays of violence.